[buckeyedan]

ehhh I have to agree that position is an odd one

1) if the coach is not doing anything wrong it's vendictive and wrong

2) if the coach IS crossing the line it should be stopped and you should activly be trying to stop it (talking to him... the club director... parents (petition to get the point across))

[wisdome]

Originally Posted by SourGrapes

If you feel that strongly about the situation, you should probably address the issue with that person. Saying what you just said only makes you appear to be someone seeking some sort of vindication.

What we all need to remember is that it only takes one mistake in this area, or one instance taken out of context to destroy someone's career, reputation, and life. Please use discretion before you make posts like this. Again, it's not just getting someone out of coaching, you can shatter a person's life by having this type of mentality.

I don't think the person sounds vindictive. To me this person is just stating an observation and if you don't want your life shattered.....don't text to the kids!

[luvofvball]

BINGO!!!! You have a choice as an Adult what to do. Take the advice of others or keep on truckin along with what you are doing. When it comes crashing down no one will feel sorry for the Adult. If nothing is going on that is shady then again.........keep on truckin.

[SourGrapes]

Originally Posted by luvofvball

BINGO!!!! You have a choice as an Adult what to do. Take the advice of others or keep on truckin along with what you are doing. When it comes crashing down no one will feel sorry for the Adult. If nothing is going on that is shady then again.........keep on truckin.

I never said to pity an adult that put himself/herself in that situation. I simply stated that if this situation exists, you are sure that it is happening, and you know all of the details, you should take some sort of action; if you are not sure it is an issue, you need not make those types of comments/posts.

[buckeyedan]

BUT... if you think something shady is going on I think you have a responsiblity to make sure the kids aren't at risk...